Being in an “ Intimate relationship “ means choosing to be on your partner’s team amen sometimes, that means putting their needs before your own. Everyone’s ideal relationship is the strong, healthy, Romantic and flirtatious kind of relationship.
We all want to be hyped by our partners by receiving flirtatious comments from them for example when you tell him; “Damn I smell good.” And his response is, “hey, you even taste better babe.” This leaves you blushing with butterflies hanging in your stomach….!! We all want this but if your type of relationship is among the ones listed below, cheiiiiii, better run for your life….. I repeat Runnnnnnnnn for your life. !!!
“ IT’S ONLY 2 OF US “ RELATIONSHIP.
Isolation is one way of keeping a partner attached to you. You can feel it, when your better half tries to convince you that, “it’s only the two of you” and make you feel that you are both against the rest of the world. The fact is that this behavior may at first glance seem like a sign of closeness and affection. But things can turn out to be more serious and your partner may try to control you in this way.
“ YOU ARE NOTHING “ RELATIONSHIP.You should think about your relationship if your partner constantly insults, humiliates or threatens you. This behavior can lead to a decrease in yourself esteem and make you believe in your worthlessness and at some point, without realizing it even, you begin to believe that you deserve all those insulting words and actions that are thrown at you.
“ YOU ALWAYS MAKE MISTAKES “ RELATIONSHIP.
We all make mistakes but that is no reason for constant bickering and criticism. Your partner can cover up the condemnation of any of your actions by saying that you are just a brutally honest and straightforward person. But in reality,it is an attack, and they enjoy blaming you and have a desire to point out your mistakes. This way they show their superiority and convince you that they know better.
“ YOU WILL DO THIS “ RELATIONSHIP.
How often does your partner make you do things that you don’t want to do? These can be direct demands, directions or prohibitions and can be achieved by manipulation. It is very dangerous because it pushes you with in limits and a lack of freedom and you have to make a choice. Most of the times the choice is in favor of your partner.
“ I DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU “ RELATIONSHIP.
You invest everything in the relationship and your partner acts as if it is no big deal. You try to solve problems and work on your relationship, but your loved one doesn’t care. Finally, you give your love and affection, and your better half remains indifferent. Does that sound familiar? If yes, then you may have a one-sided relationship. Runnnnn !!!!
“ CAN I TRUST MY PARTNER ? ”RELATIONSHIP.
Trust is an important aspect of a relationship. It enables partners to open up to each other and be honest. If a person has destroyed your trust, this may cause you to want to do the same with them. Because if they were deceived, why can’t you take revenge? If you suspect your partner of a lack of honesty or if they can not trust you,fear and numerous conflicts or even depression can occur. This prevents you from having a strong and healthy relationship.